Enjoy real, honest and genuine love that lasts,
without wasting time on the wrong ones.
Tired of the wrong relationships, break-ups and heartbreaks? Take the Love IQ Assessment.
Meet Lily
I didn’t get into this work because love came easily to me.
I got into it because… it didn’t.
For a long time, my relationships looked right on the surface —But underneath that, something always felt slightly off. Not enough to walk away straight away but enough to leave me questioning things.
And if I’m honest, I spent a lot of time trying to make sense of behaviour that never fully made sense.
That’s what led me here.
For the past 9+ years, I’ve specialised in dating and relationship coaching and combining NLP, hypnotherapy, and psychological profiling to understand:
why relationships can feel right at the start… and then slowly fall out of alignment
how to spot when you’re being drawn into the same unavailable patterns — before you’re emotionally invested
and how to recognise what’s actually happening in real time… so you can choose the relationship that’s right for you
Today, my work is about helping you find and enjoy a healthy relationship that truly feels right — not just almost right.
I’m now engaged, have a baby girl, and two dogs and I can say, love feels very different when it’s healthy.
If something in your love life hasn’t quite been adding up, you’re not imagining it and you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
You can start with a Love Life Analysis and get real clarity on what’s been happening for you.
How Can I Help?
The Dating Profile Reset
The Dating Profile Reset is a 5-video programme with a 1:1 call with Lily, designed to shift what your profile is actually communicating — so you stop attracting people who feel “almost right” but never fully land.
Instead, you start attracting aligned, emotionally available partners — where it feels clear, consistent, and easy to move forward from the beginning.
The Dating Pattern Audit
A focused 90-minute deep dive where we identify exactly why you keep ending up in the same relationship patterns — even when you’re trying to choose differently.
You’ll leave knowing what’s been driving it, what needs to change, and how to make better choices so you stop repeating it and start attracting a partner who actually meets you.
The Loved UP! Program
Loved Up is a 6-month 1:1 programme where we identify the pattern driving the partners you’re drawn to—and what their behaviour is showing you from the start.
So you stop investing in relationships that leave you questioning everything. Instead, you start choosing with clarity, consistency, and certainty, so you can enjoy real, honest love that lasts.
Book Your Love Life Analysis
You already know this isn’t random — there’s a pattern in who you meet and how it unfolds.
A Love Life Analysis call shows you exactly what’s been happening, so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start choosing differently.
A Few Of Our Happy Clients
Sam
Now Married
Sierra
Now Married
Victoria
Now Married
Jenna
Married With Baby
Tracey
Long Term Relationship and Baby
Roisin
Long Term Relationship and Dog!
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