Break the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable partners in 90 minutes
without years of overthinking or second-guessing yourself
Most women I speak to don’t have a problem with “bad partners.”
They have a problem trusting themselves early enough and knowing what to look for so they can meet a compatible partner.
Because what actually happens is this.
You meet someone. It starts well. Nothing is obviously wrong.
But something feels slightly off. Not enough to walk away.
Not enough to call it.
So you stay. You give it time. You don’t want to shut something down too quickly.
And then a few weeks later, you’re in a relationship that doesn’t quite meet your needs again.
Not because you missed red flags. But because you didn’t fully see the subtle misalignment when it first showed up.
That’s the pattern.
And that’s exactly what we fix.
Who This Is For
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking…
“This feels good… but something’s off.”
“Maybe I just need to give it more time.”
“Why does this keep happening to me?”
Then you’re exactly who this is for.
Because what’s interesting is this isn’t random. There’s a pattern running. And once you start to see it clearly, you can’t unsee it.
This is for the woman who is ready to stop explaining away red flags, trying to “make sense” of inconsistency and ending up in something that almost works but never fully does and is ready to finally understand what’s actually been driving it all along.
Who This Is Not For
This isn’t for you if:
- You’re not ready to look honestly at your patterns
- You’d rather stay in the comfort of “maybe it’ll work out”
- Or you’re avoiding dating altogether without wanting to understand why
Because this only works if you’re willing to see what’s actually happening — not what you’ve been hoping is true.
What Happens In This Session
In this 90-minute audit, we go deep. We identify:
- The exact pattern you’ve been repeating
- Why you’re drawn to the partners you are (even when you try not to be)
- What’s actually driving your decisions and reactions in the moment
- The specific point where things start to go off track
Instead of guessing, you see it clearly and once you can see it clearly, you stop repeating it. Because everything starts with awareness.
What You’ll Walk Away With
By the end of this session, you won’t be asking
“What’s going wrong?” anymore.
You’ll know:
- Exactly what’s been happening in your dating life
- Why it keeps repeating
- What needs to change — and how to do it immediately
So instead of:
- Replaying conversations
- Questioning yourself
- Hoping this time will be different
You’ll:
- Recognise what’s right — and what isn’t — early on
- Trust your decisions without second guessing
- Move through dating with clarity, not confusion
What You Get
Clear shifts that change how you date — immediately
- A short pre-session questionnaire so we go straight to what actually matters
- A 90-minute focused deep dive into your dating patterns and relationship history
- A clear, direct breakdown of what’s been happening — and where it’s been going off track
- Precise insight into what’s been driving your choices (even when you thought you were doing it differently)
- Specific shifts you can apply immediately to change how you move through dating
- A recording of the session so you can revisit it and reinforce what’s clicked
"I learned that I instinctively know when something is off and I need to trust myself."
Before booking the Dating Pattern Audit, I had been on many dates with wonderful people, but I just couldn't shake off the niggling doubts. I tried hard to justify or see the good, to the point that I was failing to trust myself and my own instinct on whether that person was right for me.
I decided to book the audit to gain a deeper insight into what I need and some clear direction on what I am looking for.
One of the biggest things I realised during the session was that I instinctively know when something is off and I need to trust myself.
The most valuable part of the session was learning to value myself, as I do others.
Immediately afterwards, I felt good, confident, motivated, with clarity and direction.
Since the audit, there has definitely been a shift. While I am happy with life as it is, I have really shifted into the mindset of not justifying two pieces that simply don't quite fit together.
If someone was on the fence about booking, I would say:
"Lily is the best at what she does! As a returning client, she has helped me grow and learn so much. If you want to understand yourself, your emotions and gain clarity, then don't miss the opportunity to work with her."
The Dating Pattern Audit is:
"Incredibly useful, relative and engaging!"
"I finished feeling like the best version of myself."
Before booking the Dating Pattern Audit, there was nothing happening in my dating life.
I was feeling tired of the same old rubbish. I was using dating apps and feeling disheartened by the response I was getting and finally felt ready to make a change and hopefully meet someone special.
One of the biggest things I realised during the session was that I need to be patient. I want to meet someone with lots of qualities that I possess, but they’re not going to be easy to spot in someone else straight away. It’s going to take time and filtering to meet the right one.
What felt most valuable was how much the session improved my confidence. I was starting to feel a bit insecure about myself, but Lily really helped to reassure me that I have lots of great qualities and it’s okay to want the same in a partner.
I don’t have to settle for less just because that’s familiar or it seems easier – it often isn’t easy in the long run.
Immediately after the audit, I felt a lot more positive and excited about dating with intention.
Since then, my mindset feels much more positive. I realised I need to trust my gut a lot more.
If someone was on the fence about booking, I would say:
"Just go for it! It will teach you so much about the kind of partner you actually want and not the one that looks good on paper. It’ll teach you a lot about yourself, too. I’d recommend this to anyone feeling like they’re always attracting the wrong people or aren’t sure where they’re going wrong."
The Dating Pattern Audit is:
"A refreshing and inspiring collaborative discussion that feels like you’re making progress right there and then. You finish the session feeling uplifted and confident about your next move. I finished feeling like the best version of myself!"
"I felt that I can be myself, and that I truly come first in my life."
Before booking the Dating Pattern Audit, I was in my head and not sure of how to make a shift.
I decided to book the session because I had worked with Lily before with great results and forward motion in my inner dating life.
During the audit, I gained more clarity on how I was able to shift a very old pattern. Even though I knew I leaned into being a rescuer type of person, seeing the peace it created for everyone involved made setting a boundary feel much more practical.
What felt most valuable was realising that I can be myself and that I truly come first in my life.
Immediately after the session, I felt clear-headed and grounded.
Since the audit, something has definitely shifted. When I want to give out a lot of energy to something, I pause and the anxiety disappears.
If someone was on the fence about booking, I would say:
"Do it because Lily is very supportive in helping you see how to approach yourself first."
The Dating Pattern Audit is:
"A powerful session in seeing how we may try to hide from our own fears, and how we can transform that fear into small steps of feeling safe in our self-awareness."
The Investment
£347 Now £247
The cost isn’t £247
It’s the months — sometimes years — spent:
Repeating the same relationship cycle
Second-guessing what you feel
Staying in something that never fully chooses you
This isn’t more advice.
It’s seeing clearly what’s been running your love life — so you can stop repeating it.
Ready to see it clearly?
You can keep doing what you’ve been doing and hope the next person is different. Or you can understand exactly why it hasn’t been - and change it.
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